"Teaching abstinence isn't just shaking your finger and telling someone to "just say no." Teaching abstinence is a mastery of the arts of self-control, self-discipline, and delayed gratifications."
The Naked Truth - Lakita Garth
The message throughout this book was clear: abstinence. It was quite refreshing, honestly, to read a positive message that was contradictory to what the media is saying. It was also comforting that there are other people in the world that believe in abstinence.
So I didn't buy this book. Honestly, I don't really care "about love, sex and relationships." My mom bought it for me, of course. But as hard as it is to admit it, I enjoyed the book. It was really informative and even entertaining to read. I definitely came away from this book with knowledge that I didn't have before.
Lakita Garth is humorously blunt and very outspoken. If anyone "tells it like it is", it's her. Although her stories were generally comical to read, sometimes I found her to be too outspoken and too nosy. That's just my opinion though, I do believe she meant well. I enjoyed her style of writing because it wasn't trying to scare me into an abstinent lifestyle. "Don't have sex before marriage or you'll die" wasn't the message. She gave a grounded, informative, and realistic perspective on both views. It is a book I would highly recommend in high school classrooms, although I believe that decision wouldn't be too popular among a young generation today.
Lakita Garth presented in her book a message that needs to be heard today. It was told beautifully, simply and in a way that didn't make us feel that she was any better than us. I enjoyed reading this book and think it should be passed on to many in my generation.